Cultivating a mindset of high self-esteem is crucial to obtain the life of our dreams. When self-worth is low, it manifests discord in all areas of our life. Getting to the cause of our low self-esteem can be a confusing process. To help out, we have added some information of why low self-esteem is so detrimental, and ways to improve it. However, if low self-esteem is blocking your progress, we highly suggest contacting us for a free initial consultation and have added a link at the bottom of the page.
In this world, the only thing that can NOT be taken from us is our self. When our self-esteem is low, we can feel empty inside and try to fill that void with all manner of self-destructive habits. If our self esttem is critically low, we can get sucked into a vicious circle of abusing ourselves which causes more bad feelings, and now we are in of something more to chase it away. More self de-structive behavior is the last thing we need, if we indulge in it, we create a low level vibration that calls in more negativity, making us feel even worse. Distractons from this pain and the guilt they produce, can get us into a cycle so low, that getting out of it without some kind of outside assistance can become a horrible dilema. This is the state of the addicted. The substance or thrill has lost its power to make us feel good but we keep chasing relief, only to cause ourselves more self-loathing, which requires more (fill in the blank) to get rid of.
Here’s how self-worth manifests in our experiences according to the Laws of Mind/Attraction:
- Blocked life force:
You were given life and created perfectly by the Universe. Not loving yourself, is a rejection of your gift of life and that negativity carries the potential for immense discord. Rejection or criticism of the gift that is you, blocks the positive flow of life energy to you and through you. Blocked life energy negates joy, health, harmony and abundance that would otherwise naturally flow. - Our experiences:
Your beliefs shape your reality: If you don’t love yourself, life reflects this negativity, and things can really spiral. Joy, abundance and love get blocked by your negative vibe. Self-criticism blocks access to love, peace, and harmony in all things, making self-love an essential aspect of loving anything, including others. This is why they say you can’t love someone else if you don’t love yourself first. - Quiets the Inner Critic:
Low self-esteem can make you your own worst enemy, constantly second-guessing or beating yourself up. This can make you a pretty unhappy person. If the inner critic never shuts up, we eventually seek distractions. Often times these distractions take our focus off of what really needs to be taken care off. If we aren’t careful and correct this negative inner criticism and condemnation, it can turn into addictions and health issues. When you value yourself, that mental chatter dials down, and you get some much-needed headspace. - Makes Fear Less Scary:
When you have increased self-esteem you will notice that you don’t worry as much to begin with. You’re more likely to think, “I got this,” which keeps negativity from messing with your vibe. When you have higher self-worth you won’t constantly scare yourself with panic over a misplaced item. - Builds Better Relationships:
If you don’t feel good about yourself, you might stick with toxic people or avoid standing up for yourself, which just creates drama for yourself. When you know your worth, you pick healthier connections that bring calm, not chaos. Additionally, you will begin attracting people who also value you. - Helps You Bounce Back:
Life’s gonna throw curveballs, but good self-esteem is like a shock absorber. You can handle setbacks without losing your cool, knowing a bad day doesn’t define you and trusting yourself to pull through despite hardships. - Lets You Be You:
Peace comes from being okay with yourself, quirks and all. When you’ve got healthy self-esteem, you don’t need everyone’s approval, so you can stop comparing and just chill.
To boost your self-esteem, try little things like giving yourself props for small wins, pushing back on negative thoughts with proof of what you’re good at, or doing stuff that makes you feel capable—like picking up a hobby or lending someone a hand. These build up over time and pave the way for real peace. Wanna dive into some specific ways to work on this? Just let me know!
